Trip #2 is scheduled!!!

We have just booked our flights to go see Stanley the first weekend in May! We are so excited to get our hands on him again! We can't imagine how big he has gotten- how many things we have already missed. Is he walking? Is he talking? Its so strange not to know the answers to those questions.

We also got some interesting news regarding the stage our file is in right now (IBESR). Some of the families are moving through the process in record time but others (primarily those with biological children at home) are being held up for another set of signatures. One family has been waiting in IBESR (normally 2-6 months) for almost 10 months! We are hoping that we are put in the fast track pile but have no idea if we are or whether or not we'll find out. Also, we had hoped to sign what is known as our I600s when we travel but we are still waiting on the DNA tests on his birthmother (to verify her identify and right to place him for adoption). Apparently, having the DNA tests done prior to the signing of the I600 will make things go smoother at the tail end of this whole process. This is supposedly being done in the next two weeks but, as with all things in Haiti, we will just have to wait and see. We are not good at waiting.

Something we can control is what we bring with us again! Last time, we filled up all 4 suitcases with donations for the orphanage and crammed our stuff into backpacks. We are going to try to do the same thing again. I'm waiting to hear what the greatest needs are right now but formula, hygiene products, over the counter medicine, and educational toys are always in need. PLEASE do not feel like you need to buy anything but lots of people have asked me how they can help. Some people have also asked if they can make donations to the orphanage. I think I would feel more comfortable if we took any collected money and purchased some stuff to take down there rather than traveling with lots of cash.

Lastly, Stanley's 1st birthday is coming up on March 9th. Unlike most little boys, he won't get to spend it surrounded by his family and friends. Try to remember to send him some happy thoughts on his special day. Hopefully, he will be able to feel all the love that we are sending his way!